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The
Birth of Our First Child
María
Del Rosario Lamshing from Mexico
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Photo
from María Del Rosario
Lamshing
Rosario
with her husband and her two children.
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I
was trying to remember an unforgettable moment in
my life. Suddenly the moment when my children were
born came to my mind.
First
of all, I think that our first child left special
memories in our mind because we had no experience,
and each day was in some way different to the
other. Each child has its own unforgettable moment,
but the first one, after all, will always be our
first great experience.
I
was living in Veracruz, Mexico which is eight hours
away from the capital city, or on hour by plane. My
husband wanted to have our baby in Mexico City, so
we planned for me to stay approximately a month and
a half in my parents' house until the baby had all
the required vaccines, and of course until my
parents-in-law and my parents met the baby.
My
doctor told me that the eighth month of pregnancy
was a perfect time to fly to Mexico City in order
to get my check up and have a good stay in my
parents' house.
I
have to say that I always talked with my baby. It
was important that he/she wait to be born until his
father was with us in Mexico City. The date that
the doctor gave me for the birth was July 29 or 30,
so when my husband told me that he needed to fly to
New York for business on July 23.
I
told him not to worry about it because I thought we
had enough time. But I remember that I told my baby
all the time to please wait until his father was on
vacation and ready to join us.
On
July 23, my husband arrived from Veracruz in order
to take his plane to New York. I was so happy to
see my husband. We had dinner talking about his
trip and how well I felt all those days. Then we
decided to go to bed earlier because he needed to
wake up very early in the morning.
My
husband always enjoyed talking with our baby
because each time that he talked to him, his
movements were in the same direction that my
husband was talking to him. That night was no
different. My husband told the baby to take care of
me and be a good boy or girl until he came back.
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Photo
from Rosario
Rosario's
first child
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But
I believe that the baby just followed our
instructions because that night I started to feel
uncomfortable. My husband said, a little bit as a
joke and a little bit serious, "We forgot to tell
the baby that this is a business trip, not the time
that I've planned to stay when he is born." But it
was too late to tell the baby that because my son
was born on July 24.
I
told my husband that it was not necessary that he
stay with me in the hospital; in fact, his clients
were waiting for him in New York. After all, there
was my whole family taking care of me, so I was not
alone.
I
was crying missing my husband, but my older sister
was able to stay with me all the time. She was
always by my side, talking to me, telling me about
when she had her first child.
A
few hours later when my husband desperately called
me, asking for us. I was so proud and happy to tell
him that Wiston, Jr. and I were waiting for him. My
son will be fifteen years old next July 24th, but
it seems to me that this unforgettable moment was
yesterday.
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